I was going to write about something totally different today, but all of the random “Good Morning” texts I received this morning completely changed my mind! Now, I’m not sure if I’m the only one this happens to, but what’s up with this dreaded “Good Morning” text!?!
What does it mean? Are these guys really thinking of me? Are they just being polite? Is it game? How many other chicks are getting the same text? I mean seriously, I am not personally affected by these random “acts” of kindness, but I used to be…
Once upon a time, there was a girl…A girl whose daily mood completely depended on an insignificant “Good Morning” text! It was so stupid, now that I think about it, how I could be so naïve!?! But it made me feel valued, cared for and thought of. I would really look forward to it every morning and if I didn’t get it, I was completely pissed and he had hell to pay! How could I let this tiny gesture effect my ENTIRE DAY! I was giving him all of my power, but why? Well, somewhere deep down in my heart I wanted to be loved and desired by SOMEONE…Even if it wasn’t sincere! So, I took what I could get!
I was immediately snapped back into reality when I realized this was a MASS text! Meaning, I WAS NOT the only person receiving this “oh-so-precious” text…It was all a façade, a trick, GAME! So now I no longer allow these “acts” to effect my day! Although, I no longer speak to Mr. Good Morning there are plenty more where he came from!
Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t think that all “Good Morning” texts are used as “game.” Some people actually do think of me enough to say good morning. It’s refreshing to know that I am thought of by people who aren’t looking for something in return. They simply want to let me know that I am thought of and I appreciate that!
So, whether these random texts are sincere or merely blowing smoke, it doesn’t matter because I will no longer allow the actions of others to have the power to affect me!
Table for one please…All of me, no holds barred! Love me or leave me alone :-)
BACK TO HAPPY TIP: Do something kind for someone…And when they smile, so will you!